If I had to write a letter to my pre-departure self, I would start by explaining that everything is going to be okay. Before I left, I was worried about a million different things. I was sad to say goodbye to my friends and family, I didn’t know if I would make good friends, I didn’t know how my roommates or my apartment would be, etc. After being here for three months, I can confidently say that everything is better than I imagined. My apartment is bigger and nicer than I ever pictured, all my roommates are very friendly, and I made some great friends that I will stay in touch with for years to come. So to my past self, be excited! Throw the worries and fear away because it is going to be an amazing experience that you will always cherish.
In this letter to my past self, I would also tell myself to be excited for all the personal growth there is to come. Adjusting to a city as big as London is not easy, but I did it. I have become more independent and resourceful than I ever was. Also, leaving everything and everyone that you know and love is not easy, but I got through it because they’re only a phone call or text away. I’ve been able to travel the world and see places that I’ve dreamed of seeing. This trip has opened my eyes even more to the world that is out there and all there is to explore. It makes me very excited to keep traveling, keep exploring, and possibly move abroad for a little.
One thing that surprised me during this trip is how different British culture is from American culture. I never knew that they could be so different. I assumed that since they spoke the same language, they would be very similar. However, they are very different, and I’ve grown to love British culture. British people seem to truly enjoy life. For example, they go to pubs very often after work with their colleagues to relax after a long day. They are also very friendly and love to speak with people from other countries to learn about their cultures. I have really enjoyed learning about and experiencing the British culture, so I hope to spend more time doing so later on in my life.
Overall, my trip to London has been filled with lots of personal growth, learning, and fun. If I could talk to my pre-departure self, I would tell her to stop worrying. I know it is difficult to not be sad or scared, but the trip is so worth it and is better than I ever could’ve imagined. So, to my past self, know that everything is going to be okay and you are going to love it. And also, time flies so embrace it.