Salve! It’s hard to believe I only have about 2 weeks left here. Time has flown by so fast, and I’ve truly savored every single moment. The longer I’ve been immersed in Italy’s culture, the more I’ve felt myself gain a new and knowledgeable identity.

One part of the Italian culture that resonates with me is the sincere emphasis on human connection and genuine experiences. This goes far beyond basic politeness. It’s about authentic gestures that provide meaningful interactions.

I’ve always been someone who values acts of kindness and genuine support. Whether it’s a helping hand when I am struggling with a task, a reassuring word or gesture when I am feeling unsure, or even just a smile or wave, goes a long way for me. And there is always a large wave of satisfaction when I am able to extend the same warmth and generosity to others whenever I can. 

Since arriving in Italy, I’ve been surprised by how prominently this human connection shows through in a lot of my interactions. I have done a lot of traveling while here, and from the crowded streets of Rome to the beautiful blue waters of Positano, each experience has consistently reinforced this observation.

Every time l’ve stepped into a café for breakfast, or sat down for a meal in a trattoria, I’ve been met with this genuine friendliness that has touched me.

I can honestly say that I haven’t had a single negative experience when it comes to personal interactions. I’ve received welcoming smiles from strangers I pass by, a friendly wave goodbye after leaving a shop, and patience when I don’t quite understand the language. 

For instance, there was a time I struggled with an item on a menu that didn’t translate into English. I pronounced it wrong, sounding very unsure. Instead of just pointing or shrugging, my waiter went into great detail. He patiently explained exactly what the dish was, how it was prepared, and even took the time to have me repeat the Italian word, helping me to learn and engage more deeply with the local culture. This dedication to ensuring a positive and understandable experience, paired with such genuine kindness, has truly made my time here incredibly special.

One of the most interesting, and at times challenging, aspects of Italy’s culture has definitely been its relationship with time. Everything here seems to unfold at a much slower, more intentional pace, such as the academic setting. 

I’m used to the precise timing of the United States, where being on the dot, or even a minute or two late, can feel like a major setback. I’ve found myself getting a little anxious, rushing to class if I am late, only to see that my professor isn’t even there yet! They might come in five or ten minutes later, and it’s simply no big deal and the class just starts when it starts. In the US, a professor being late often means a scramble to make up for lost time, but here, there’s a relaxed acceptance that I’m still getting used to.

Beyond the classroom, this laid back approach to time extends to something as simple as walking or even making food. I’ve always been a fast walker, whether I have places to be, or enjoying a leisurely walk. Here, however, the pace is noticeably slower. It’s as if everyone is intentionally taking their time, enjoying each step. It’s a significant shift from my own habits, and while I’m definitely learning to embrace it, it’s certainly a different rhythm to adjust to!

I’ve seen this same relaxed attitude in restaurants and cafes too. The staff aren’t scrambling or rushing around like they often are in the U.S. Instead, they work at their own pace, taking the time to relax and ensuring everything is done just right.

Navigating a new culture has been an enriching experience, and I’m finding my way through it by really listening and observing, and then by acting upon it. 

One of the most rewarding parts has been picking up Italian words and phrases. I started simple, with greetings like “Ciao” and “Grazie” after ordering food or drinks. But the more I’ve listened to conversations around me, observed labels at the grocery, and watched interactions , the more I’ve started noticing repeated words. This has given me a lot more confidence. 

I can (almost) comfortably order my food in Italian, and can also understand the questions they’re asking me in return. It’s a small but meaningful way to show my appreciation for the culture and demonstrate that I’m genuinely trying to connect.

Beyond the language, I’m also learning to navigate these cross-cultural moments by simply adjusting my own pace and expectations. Back home, I’m definitely a planner. I love mapping out my day, and if we’re going out to dinner, I’ll often check the menu online beforehand. Here in Italy, though, there’s always something spontaneous popping up. Plans often emerge unexpectedly or at the last minute, and people tend to just go with the flow.

If I’m not in a rush, I’ve started embracing this relaxed way of life. I’ve adapted to the slower pace, taking more time to enjoy the beautiful views of Florence. By letting go of my rigid plans and allowing for spontaneity, I’ve actually stumbled upon so many unexpected and delightful experiences that I never would have planned for, like a hike up to Piazzale Michelangelo or discovering a new favorite food spot. 

This program has really pushed me out of my comfort zone, allowing me to create a deep connection with the culture that I never expected.